DATING

   Are there any laws or rules to dating? I have been asking myself this recently. I'm trying to figure out how to date more than one guy without neglecting one of them. I usually only date one guy at a time because it seems like too much of a struggle trying to please more than one person at a time. I have no clue how Stevie J is able to do this with his various women. Somehow I think that one of them feels neglected while the main one is the one feeling special and everyone wants to feel special, spend time together and feel secure in whatever it is you have going on. At least I know I do. Without it I will become bored and lose interest. To some I suppose that is complex, while others see it as an easy task. Guys tell me all the time how I'm a good woman and how they would love to be with me but I digress. I don't feel the same about them. I have taken the time to get to know several guys over the past few years and I can honestly say that I have only met 2 that I know that I could be with happily. Some say that I'm too picky but I think that I have standards and morals that help me decide about who I choose to love and/or date. In a world driven by sex, money and common hate, how do you successfully date in 2012? I know that I will never find someone with each and everything that I'm looking for but I am entitled to someone that possesses the vast majority of the qualities that I need. Matter of fact it's quite simple in my eyes. Intelligence, good sense of humor, chivalry, good conversation, honesty, commitment (no cheating allowed), family orientated, nice libido and someone not too clingy but knows how to spend time with me and make me feel special are a few of those requirements. Is that too much to ask for? Right now I'm not sure. I feel as though I'm at a dating crossroad and I'm not sure which way to go. To be honest, I'm not sure if I should continue down the road that I'm on but I know the roads that I don't want to take. What are your dating experiences like?